Happy Anniversary!

This past week, Ralph received 4 of the 5 radiation treatments for his rib. Typically, it takes 15 days after the last treatment (Monday) to feel the full effect, which would be no pain, hopefully. The goal is to no longer need the pain medication. His chemo makes him very anxious, so Xanax was prescribed, this week, to help him relax enough to get a complete night’s rest. His stomach is very swollen from the steroids which can make him uncomfortable, but his appetite is still good. According to the doctors, Ralph is tolerating very high dosages of chemo and steroids, and they do not want to decrease the dosage.

Our 29th anniversary is today. My parents visited and Michael, Erin, Megan, and Nathan came which went much better than last night when we attempted to eat at Angelo’s. Ralph was unable to take off his coat; not because it was physically difficult. It was obvious that he was not comfortable. He ate very little of the appetizer, but could finish his salad. Once our meal arrived, he needed to leave, so it was packed to-go, and he was able to enjoy it at home. He was touched by a dessert surprise left on our porch by Monika, one of Mallory’s friends. How sweet! Mallory called from Italy!

Admirably, Ralph has maintained poise and dignity throughout his ordeal. If this has been a judge of character, Ralph’s is exemplary. He rarely complains, and when he does, it is justifiable. He asks for very little, and tries to be self-sufficient. He has put his faith in God and his trust in his doctors, family, and friends. Ralph makes sure he gets dressed and goes out of the house every day. He has been able to help Megan shop for a new car and has made me take him to Dick’s just to look at golf gear! Ralph has read and reread his cards and appreciates visitors.

After Round 3, which starts tomorrow, Ralph will be seen at Hillman to discuss the stem-cell transplant and harvesting cells.