Saturday, January 23, 2010
EXHALE...
Goodness, I am guessing that this is the way our lives will be. We will hold our breaths and exhale after receiving results. Fortunately, answers are as prompt as possible. Ralph went to a renal specialist who did a sonogram of his bladder and kidneys...only to order an MRI, because he wanted a clearer picture of a spot on his kidney. After a little more than a week to get approved by insurance (He had already had 2 MRIs this year.), we have news that it is a cyst. PHEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW! Today is a good day to CEleBRaTe LiFE! ENJoy!
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
One year ago...
January 12th is the day that our lives changed. Adversity brought about a lot of really positive things. We reconnected with old friends and family. We are awed and humbled by an outpouring of true concern and the desire to help by an entire community. Our nuclear family's bond strengthened. Issues and things that once mattered seem trivial. Our needs and wants are totally different. We relax. We appreciate staying at home. Sounds we once took for granted seem like music. We truly take our time to smell fragrances that were ignored. The seasons need to come and go more slowly. We no longer live for someday; rather, we enjoy now.
Ralph spends a lot of time at doctor visits and check-ups rather than at work. He also spends more time at home and with our children and me. We watch television together rather than in different rooms...we compromise. We are more considerate of one another. In the hustle and bustle of life, we had lost what is most important...we have found it again! In the back of our minds, there is a gray cloud, but for the most part, this year has been life altering and we have found peace. Praise the Lord!
Ralph spends a lot of time at doctor visits and check-ups rather than at work. He also spends more time at home and with our children and me. We watch television together rather than in different rooms...we compromise. We are more considerate of one another. In the hustle and bustle of life, we had lost what is most important...we have found it again! In the back of our minds, there is a gray cloud, but for the most part, this year has been life altering and we have found peace. Praise the Lord!
Friday, January 1, 2010
2010
It was an emotional ringing in of 2010! Ralph was feeling the blessing of life and the fortune of celebrating a new year! I have been haunted, this holiday, with thoughts and feelings of the beginning of 2009. No, nothing and no one is taken for granted at our house. We talk to God a lot and give Him thanks. We are hoping for a healthy, safe, and peaceful new year for ourselves, our families, and our friends!
Thursday, December 31, 2009
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
A little more than a year ago, we had no idea what our lives would be for the holidays 2009. Thanks to biochemists, modern medicine, intelligent researchers and doctors, prayers and more prayers, and the grace of God, we were able to spend a quality Christmas with our families, children, and friends! Tonight we will enjoy our traditional dinner at Angelo's with Jim and Sue and bring in another year! Tomorrow, we will celebrate at my brother's watching football and eating foods that are to bring good fortune! We feel blessed! We are grateful! We have learned to live moment to moment!
http://www.llerrah.com/newyearwishes.htm
We wish you peace within your heart, love from family and friends, and faith to guide your way!
http://www.llerrah.com/newyearwishes.htm
We wish you peace within your heart, love from family and friends, and faith to guide your way!
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
We suspected...
The research study is taking no new patients, so it was revealed that Ralph is taking the maintenance chemo...supposedly a good thing. We must trust in God to advise us through the doctors.
We were suspicious, from day one, that Ralph was receiving low doses of chemo. He immediately needed more bathroom time and his behavior was similar to the way he reacted with strong chemo...but less severe. He can annoyingly chatter...he used to be quiet. His short term memory is lacking...but whose isn't?
We pray that this maintenance chemo is the answer to buying more time...quality time..and that the effects are minimal and not another problem!
We were suspicious, from day one, that Ralph was receiving low doses of chemo. He immediately needed more bathroom time and his behavior was similar to the way he reacted with strong chemo...but less severe. He can annoyingly chatter...he used to be quiet. His short term memory is lacking...but whose isn't?
We pray that this maintenance chemo is the answer to buying more time...quality time..and that the effects are minimal and not another problem!
Monday, December 14, 2009
2009 Christmas Letter
Greetings!
As always, I hope that this letter finds you and yours safe and well.
Our house has been anything but calm! The first 7 months of 2009 were very challenging for our family. I was not dealing well with the “Empty Nest” and was wondering what I was going to do with my free time. After sending Mallory to Italy to study abroad for 4 months, Ralph and I began to consider all the house projects that were needed, the idea of joining a gym, and the thoughts of bicycling. Well, as the song goes, “If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans”; He had different plans for us. On January 12th, Ralph was diagnosed with multiple myeloma…a treatable, not curable, cancer of the blood plasma. It eats the bones. “If He brings us to it, He will carry us through it”, and He did. On August 12th, after 4 rounds of chemo and a stem-cell transplant, Ralph was cancer free! We pray for the longest remission possible! Now, Ralph is part of the research to “pay it forward”. For his benefit as well as others with myeloma, he seems to be probed and prodded frequently. His work and golf days are fewer and less intense, but he has a new appreciation for other matters. With help, he had a successful deer hunting season. We created a Blog to inform friends and relatives of our plight. ralphchicone.blogspot.com/
In the midst of all that, based on family history and the fact that atypical cells were found during surgery to remove a papiloma, I am considered high risk and am being monitored at the Hillman Breast and Ovarian Cancer Center. As a proactive defense, I am taking Evista to block estrogen from my breasts and am examined every six months with yearly mammograms being diagnostic.
What matters most…all three children are healthy, safe, and happy! No one has moved or changed companies, but Megan is another step closer to agency. Their personal lives are blossoming, and their academic lives have broadened. Mallory hopes to be attending grad school in Pittsburgh, next fall, to become a speech therapist. We picnicked around our new pond and putting green, this summer, and celebrated birthdays! Cirque Du Soliel was entertaining! Thanksgiving was served at our house, and Ralph and I took the girls to see the Rockettes in Pittsburgh. We have enjoyed a few Sundays at Michael’s and Erin’s and our house, as a family and with friends, cheering on the STEELERS!
Yes, our lives were interrupted, and we met many challenges this year, but with the support of family, friends, and our community we are well on our way to recovery. We like to think that we have become better people and that our family ties are stronger because of our quandary. It seems that some things that really mattered are no longer important, and that other things that we took for granted are the most important. Hopefully, 2010 will be happily eventful, and we will be back at the beach for vacation!
From the bottom of my heart, I wish you and yours nothing but good health, safety, and peace! Be content when things seem to stay the same for change is not always welcome. Bask in the sunshine, and if it gets cloudy or storms, may you be given the guidance, courage, and strength needed to endure.
Keep the faith!
As always, I hope that this letter finds you and yours safe and well.
Our house has been anything but calm! The first 7 months of 2009 were very challenging for our family. I was not dealing well with the “Empty Nest” and was wondering what I was going to do with my free time. After sending Mallory to Italy to study abroad for 4 months, Ralph and I began to consider all the house projects that were needed, the idea of joining a gym, and the thoughts of bicycling. Well, as the song goes, “If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans”; He had different plans for us. On January 12th, Ralph was diagnosed with multiple myeloma…a treatable, not curable, cancer of the blood plasma. It eats the bones. “If He brings us to it, He will carry us through it”, and He did. On August 12th, after 4 rounds of chemo and a stem-cell transplant, Ralph was cancer free! We pray for the longest remission possible! Now, Ralph is part of the research to “pay it forward”. For his benefit as well as others with myeloma, he seems to be probed and prodded frequently. His work and golf days are fewer and less intense, but he has a new appreciation for other matters. With help, he had a successful deer hunting season. We created a Blog to inform friends and relatives of our plight. ralphchicone.blogspot.com/
In the midst of all that, based on family history and the fact that atypical cells were found during surgery to remove a papiloma, I am considered high risk and am being monitored at the Hillman Breast and Ovarian Cancer Center. As a proactive defense, I am taking Evista to block estrogen from my breasts and am examined every six months with yearly mammograms being diagnostic.
What matters most…all three children are healthy, safe, and happy! No one has moved or changed companies, but Megan is another step closer to agency. Their personal lives are blossoming, and their academic lives have broadened. Mallory hopes to be attending grad school in Pittsburgh, next fall, to become a speech therapist. We picnicked around our new pond and putting green, this summer, and celebrated birthdays! Cirque Du Soliel was entertaining! Thanksgiving was served at our house, and Ralph and I took the girls to see the Rockettes in Pittsburgh. We have enjoyed a few Sundays at Michael’s and Erin’s and our house, as a family and with friends, cheering on the STEELERS!
Yes, our lives were interrupted, and we met many challenges this year, but with the support of family, friends, and our community we are well on our way to recovery. We like to think that we have become better people and that our family ties are stronger because of our quandary. It seems that some things that really mattered are no longer important, and that other things that we took for granted are the most important. Hopefully, 2010 will be happily eventful, and we will be back at the beach for vacation!
From the bottom of my heart, I wish you and yours nothing but good health, safety, and peace! Be content when things seem to stay the same for change is not always welcome. Bask in the sunshine, and if it gets cloudy or storms, may you be given the guidance, courage, and strength needed to endure.
Keep the faith!
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