Sunday, September 5, 2010

A Year Has Passed...




It was a year ago, June 11, 2010, that Ralph had his stem-cell transplant! Since then, his physical and emotional strength has progressed and he has, on occasion, enjoyed some golfing and coaching from the dugout. This summer, we traveled to Fell's Point on our way to a family vacation, in OCMD, where we met the kids. His body still aches and he needs more time to rest, but he seems to persevere. YES, some of his "SASS" is back! He still attempts to be in his office, every day, but the physical demands can take a toll, and the mental demands can give him a headache. The daily oral chemo has no effect on his knowledge or performance, but he needs more rest-time to refocus.

After the Stem-cell Transplant Annual Patient Picnic, on August 28th, Ralph is now ready and hopes to start going to the group meetings for patients and family members of Multiple Myeloma. We saw that cancer favors people of all ages, both sexes, and any race or nationality. The event was a most humbling and inspirational experience. The medical staff was as happy to be there as their patients! Such hope!

Megan is getting married, in November, and we are all thrilled that Ralph will walk her down the aisle. Twenty-one months ago, we thought that he may miss-out on that privilege. He talks a lot about wanting grandchildren, which is part of his "new' character, I suppose. Life and family are no longer taken for granted.

Although, there is still a gray cloud, it has lifted and is not quite as dark. We no longer wake to the thought of CANCER, and pray every day for patience, strength, and courage. We also thank God for the love and support of family and friends!

PLEASE continue to pray for the doctors, researchers, nurses, biochemists, and all who have helped to make this a treatable cancer.